BE YOURSELF!!!!!!!!

Life is full of surprises and the best gift you can give yourself is to be true to who you are.Never blame anyone for your mistakes,i know in life we meet different people called friends but its up to you to allow them to control you or for you to take absolute control over your life.people will never know until you figure yourself out .You become someone through ,mates you meet but it doesn't mean that you are like them.There is a phrase most of us use show me your friends and i will tell you who you are ,not every one you associates with are your truly friends some are just mate(people you know like in your streets ,neighbor,media or locations. Lable yourself different and you will appear differently to those around you.

Remember you can be your number enemy and friend,so learn from your mistakes ,let the past be there ,let go of all your doubts.Your future will be shape by your thoughts,if you are living by what people say about that means you haven't yet figure or find yourself.It takes time to find yourself ,to know life and to know who you really are,but never give up on yourself or life even those that around has given up on you.You should encourage your self in what ever you believe in that you can do any thing,as for mwah i tell myself i can do all things through Christ who strengthen me.

No matter what you do whether good or bad people will continue to talk even when you are 10fts  in the ground they will talk. Don't let words of people move you cause they got nothing on you ,they wont be able to change you or your heart.You are unique that's why people talk about you ,if you were a no body no one will talk about you but they care about you that's why they keep on talking about.If they didn't care then ,they wont ask about you or what you do.,

Be yourself and don't allow down grading words to over power you,cause nothing is to stronger then you.You are who you are no one or anything can change that ,only GOD.Think positive ,live on positive thoughts,reject negativity and accept who you are .......tell yourself i will make it no matter how,time or years i will reach my purpose.

By Victoria Kalwenya